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EMDR and Brainspotting
break through survival mode
Feeling stuck?
If you’ve experienced a stressful event, loss, or trauma, you’ve probably tried to push away the distress and found it kept coming back anyway. Looping thoughts, difficulty concentrating, negative beliefs about yourself, and feeling either jumpy or shut-down are common responses to overwhelm. Panic attacks, muscle tension, and other discomfort in your body may be interfering with your ability to relax, socialize, work, or sleep.
You might have found, too, that trying to suppress or talk yourself out of these upsetting thoughts and feelings is both exhausting and ineffective. In such instances, I find that talk therapy alone can be too limiting and that experiential practices — such as EMDR and brainspotting — work faster.
Transformational therapies can help.
Therapy that honors the protective defenses of the mind and body, that respects the intelligence of your nervous system, and that heals the root of the issue can lead to transformational change, not just better coping. If you tend to overthink or live in your head, you may be particularly surprised at how much wisdom — and opportunities for healing — the body holds. EMDR and brainspotting are brain- and body-based therapies that are quite different from regular talk therapy. Learn more below.
What is EMDR?
“When an event has been sufficiently processed, we remember it but do not experience the old emotions or sensations in the present. We are informed by our memories, not controlled by them.” - Francine Shapiro, Ph.D., developer of EMDR
EMDR, or Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing, is an evidence-based and highly effective form of trauma treatment that is also used to treat anxiety, depression, chronic pain, addictions, and other distressing life experiences.
When a stressful event occurs, you may be too overwhelmed to fully digest the event. Parts of these memories, such as distressing thoughts, images, feelings, beliefs, and body sensations, may get stuck in your system in unhelpful ways and may get triggered by current interactions.
You may respond to difficulties with your partner, for instance, from the much younger, more fragile state that experienced the initial trauma. Or you may maintain some of the negative beliefs about yourself that originated from the traumatic event, making it hard for you to move forward in your relationships or career.
It doesn’t have to stay this way.
EMDR FAQs
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Whether a disturbing event happened to you recently or long ago, EMDR helps to make the distress of this memory less vivid, intrusive, and impactful. Whether it was a series of events, as is often the case with childhood trauma, or a single incident, such as a sports injury, EMDR can help.
For many clients, EMDR will diminish or completely resolve symptoms of trauma. Additionally, you will develop many resources — or strategies for self-soothing and managing distress — during the process. So you will not only learn how to better cope when challenges arise, but you will break free of the haunting memories that have been holding you back.
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EMDR addresses not only the negative beliefs about yourself – like “I don’t matter,” “I’m not good enough,” or “I am helpless” – but also the painful emotions and the uncomfortable physical sensations in your body that linger due to trauma.
It does this by utilizing dual attention stimulus, meaning you will be doing things like moving your eyes back and forth, tapping your legs, or another activity that is comfortable for you while we reprocess distressing events.
This activity is thought to work by keeping one foot firmly grounded in the present while the other is in the past, allowing us to resolve the faulty conclusions, clear the related body sensations, and reduce the intensity of distress that the memory used to evoke.
It’s important to know that you are always in control during EMDR and may disclose as many or as few details as you wish.
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Yes! Intensives are an excellent way to resolve a troubling memory, target a performance block, or gain clarity about a particular pattern or internal conflict.
I offer 3-hour intensives and may integrate IFS, ART, Flash Technique, and other approaches with EMDR for accelerated progress.
Some clients prefer biweekly or monthly intensives to the weekly format or see me for extended sessions while in town from other locales. Please feel free to contact me to discuss your needs.
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Absolutely! You or your regular therapist may feel you would benefit from more comprehensive trauma work or from EMDR specifically.
I provide short-term and long-term adjunct EMDR or trauma therapy, including intensives, to clients who already have a therapist. I am happy to collaborate with your provider to ensure the best outcomes for you.
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Yes, I am an EMDR certified therapist.
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What is Brainspotting?
“Where you look affects how you feel.” - David Grand, Ph.D., developer of Brainspotting
When stress overwhelms us, as often happens with shocking or deeply painful events, fragments of the undigested experience remain in the brain and body. These pieces of unprocessed experience may cast a dark shadow across the ways we think, behave, and relate to others and ourselves in the present day, though we may remain unaware of this connection.
To release these traumas and their ongoing hold over us, brainspotting uses our field of vision to access these memories in the brain. By finding the eye positions that map to certain sensations or memories, brainspotting offers an alternative, non-talk oriented way to work through the emotional residue trapped in the nervous system.
What makes brainspotting different, and how does it work?
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Talk therapy on its own tends to engage the neocortex, or the thinking, planning, decision-making part of the brain. For many of us, we rely on this part of the brain almost exclusively and go in circles trying to out-think our problems or figure out why we feel the way we do.
This is often ineffective, since the answers may be stored out of our conscious awareness in our brain and bodies. In effect, you may have responses to situations, people, and places that are triggered by previous incidents, but that are hard to connect to the present.
Processing memories from a more primitive part of the brain, called the subcortical brain, often helps us more quickly and fully resolve trauma.
Brainspotting uses our eyes to locate and work through the stored memory fragments deep in our brains, thus bypassing the overthinking parts of ourselves.
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We can find the brainspots that map to feelings of groundedness, confidence, or calm, for instance, or we can find the brainspot that connects you most strongly to a specific character if you are a writer or actor wanting to harness your creativity.
The question that often comes up early in brainspotting is, “Am I doing this right?” That’s because it is quite different from the talk therapy most of us are used to, and performance anxiety is real!
With brainspotting, you cannot do it wrong. Staying open and curious is pretty much all there is to do, and your magnificent brain takes it from there.
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Brainspotting can be integrated in many ways! Generally, you'll have the option to listen to bilateral music on a low volume while we work together. The music provides auditory stimulation that gently flows between the left and right sides of your brain and facilitates processing.
There may be an issue you want to work on, such as the anxiety of speaking in public or the distress from a recent event. We’ll find the place in your body where you feel it the strongest and rate the intensity of that sensation on a scale of 0-10.
We’ll then identify the point in your visual field that maps to that sensation most strongly. Amazingly, when you think about something, you can connect to it more or less intensely depending on where you look. We will process from a point that is activated but tolerable, with you talking as much as you like or processing quietly if you prefer.
You are likely to experience images, memories, sensations, thoughts, shifts in perspective, and deeper insights, and often you will find that the original intensity of distress has decreased significantly from where it started.
Of note, brainspotting can be used not just to process upsetting events but also to enhance positive resources, creativity, and feelings of calm and groundedness.
Next steps
How it Works
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Reach Out today
Schedule a free 20-minute phone consultation. I’m happy to answer any questions and make sure we’re a good fit.
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FIRST Session
We’ll talk about what brings you to therapy and what changes you’d like to see through our work together.
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resolve stuckness & thrive
Join me weekly to achieve your goals OR break through blocks in the intensive format.